Mistakes Women Make in Bed

Learning how to hold your own in all all-nighter with your man is good, but have you ever thought about the things that you do in bed which can be a turnoff for him? To further enhance your sexual skills and techniques, take a look at the following list of the mistakes women make in bed. If you find one or two mistakes that you are guilty of, now is the time to correct them so that you and the man that you are with can have a full and satisfying sex life.

1. Letting him do all the work.

It is good for women to hold out and let the men do the chasing while you are not officially together yet. However, once the chase has finished and you are officially a couple, you need to consider yourself equals – especially when it comes to bed. Do not let him do all the work. One of the major things that is a turnoff for men is if you just lie there on your back, letting him do all the work. If you have just started dating, you can take his lead but gradually, as the relationship develops, you also need to be the initiator or the aggressor.

2. Giving him the silent treatment.

In bed, that is. Having a ‘mute’ partner is a major turnoff for men, and it will not do you any good, either. Sex should be a pleasurable act for both parties, and it would help a lot if you would let him know when he has hit the right spot. Moaning and making sounds of pleasure, and telling him what feels good and what doesn’t would help a lot in your physical and verbal communication while doing the deed.

3. Faking it.

We have all heard the horror stories of women having to fake orgasm just to make their husband or boyfriend feel good about themselves. You need to up the ante if you want to reach the peak of sexual satisfaction. Try telling him what feels good for you and what doesn’t. In the end, if you continue on faking orgasm, he may think that you have a great sex life when in fact it is not satisfactory for you at all.

4. Not taking enough risks.

No matter how busy you are, you need to invest time in making sure that you look desirable. If he loves you just as you are, then try going for a sexier look, even if it is just between the two of you. Also, when it comes to the act itself, do not be afraid to be experimental. Spicing things up will keep your bedroom activities fun, hot and exciting. After all, who wants to have a boring sex life? Be open to new things so that you both will have a good time in bed.

Now that you know some of the most common mistakes that women make in bed, you can make some adjustments so that you and the man of your life will continue seeing fireworks while in bed together.

09.11.2008. 22:46