How to give her oral sex

How many times have you seen guys out there that just LOVE to eat pussy, they are a rare breed so thumbs up to the guys that do. I know for some of you it’s intimidating and you are afraid to look inadequate so let’s throw out the quick “here you go” ways that served you well in college it just isn’t cutting it in your adult life.

Let me start out with a good tip to help you out. When a woman finds a man who goes down on her and does it well, she's found a pot of gold she's not going to let go of too quickly. This is one rare individual and she knows it. She may confide in her best friend but that’s about it otherwise he will become the most popular man in town. Remember, most guys know how to work their cock but the guy who licks pussy well, now he's got it made.

Now I am not saying it’s easy for all you guys especially when a lot of women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the world's most stunning woman lying next to you, she's going to worry about how you see her body. Start out by telling her she has one of the most beautiful pussies you have ever felt, and don’t talk porn language either, and you know what I mean!, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to feel confident enough to let you down between her legs.

So you’ve accomplished that part well and you’re finally down there, now I want you to think about this for a minute, There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know I’ve seen plenty of them, and no I’m not a lesbian. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some fully shaven and bald, others trimmed, while others are nested in brushes of fur or covered with transparent fuzz. Keep in mind to appreciate your woman's unique qualities and how beautiful it is and tell her what makes her special.

Women in general like to communicate more than men especially when making love and they also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it and I am not saying chat like you would at the coffee shop but just short sentences here and there, pause now and then, words are the anticipation right before she feels your desired touches and petting again. It’s a small tease but it’s hotter than hell for her.

Now be sure to look at it again but this time gently pulls the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit, A woman’s clit is also unique in size just like men with different sized cocks it means nothing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.

Whenever you stroke and touch inside the lips of a woman's pussy, make sure you do this with feather touches, it is sensitive and can hurt, the best thing to do is make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure not to touch her clit unless wet because it doesn't have any juices of its own and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. For the moment though you don't want to touch her clit you have to work up to that. Unless she becomes fully aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.

Approach her pussy slowly and not like some rabid dog. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh and close to the crease of her outer lips is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, and make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, and then float away. Make her anticipate it.

Lick the crease more where her leg joins her pussy then nestle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. Once you have done this to the point where she is raising her buttocks and straining to get more of you closer to her, and then put your lips right on top of her slit.

Kiss her pussy gently, then firmer then use your tongue to separate her pussy lips. When she opens up, run your tongue all the way up and down in long strokes between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs open with your hands everything you do with a woman you're eating must be done gently, a little width is exposure and excites her, now continue a few more times running your tongue up and down in long strokes.

Now add something new and tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peep out of the covers. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely experience its presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin.

Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her, don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop. Don't ever stop!' There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth learning to do well.

Another tip on pussy eating if you would like to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-fuck her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before, during or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what you rub up against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do the fucking.

Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too expanding and therefore can't get deep enough. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that she's getting off on this if you have followed all the other lessons. If there's any doubt, check her out for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.

When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely sensitive just now.

If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information? The potential? The potential to give her multiple orgasms. She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.

Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often, pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all enjoy yourself.

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15.07.2009. 21:41